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Celebrate Menstrual Monday!

Everything starts as a Thought! A dissertation, a dress, an airplane, this article, or a national holiday such as Thanksgiving… The thoughts of Sarah Josepha Hale translated into action: she wrote letters to American politicians for 40 years(!) until Abraham Lincoln eventually proclaimed Thanksgiving a national holiday to be celebrated on the last Thursday of [...]

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Dancing With The Moon

Are your moods predictable? How about your sleepless nights? Fearless moments? Bashful bouts? “I don’t know what came over me!” we often exclaim, and usually we really don’t have a clue. Enters the Moon… Waxing and waning, the moon’s absolute predictable rhythm is change: two weeks of waxing followed by two weeks of waning, and [...]

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Let Your Daughter Find Her Song!

Sing daughter sing Make a song And sing Beat out your own rhythms The rhythms of your life But make the song soulful And make life Sing ~ Micere Mugo Zimbabwe, 1970’s (From: “I’m on my way running”, editors: Lynn Reese, Sean Wilkinson, Phyllis Koppelman. Avon books, 1975) Isn’t this the wish of every mother [...]

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Coming of Age: It’s Never Too Late…

Were you welcomed into Adulthood? Did you receive a ceremony? Had a Mentor? Experienced a sense of belonging to your community as an equal member once you turned a certain age? Most adults living today haven’t… When I speak with Jewish folks who had a Bar or Bat Mitzvah, they, too, feel that it was [...]

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Coming of Age: How Does One Become An Adult?

How does one become an adult? Well, mostly by imitation… I grew up in a household of two (heavy) cigarette-smoking, coffee-drinking parents. For me, this was the epitome of adulthood… And when I started smoking cigarettes and drinking coffee, at the age of seventeen, I felt that I have arrived! The “arrival” was not celebrated [...]

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Why Is Menstruation Powerful?

All indigenous cultures around the world revered women for their ability to birth Life! In order to birth Life, we must first Menstruate! In native cultures menstruation was known as the time when the veil between the worlds is thinnest In native cultures menstruation was considered a time when women have access to the Divine In native [...]

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Are We Binding Our Girls’ Mouths?

In my daughter’s 5th grade class there are three times as many girls with braces on their teeth than there are boys. Though boys are more likely to get braces these days then they were when I was growing up, the majority of brace-wearers are still girls. Is this a coincidence? I doubt it… It [...]

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Through Alice’s Looking Glass

“First menstruation is welcomed with much celebration and fanfare in Hindu and Buddhist Sri Lankan cultures” writes Audrey Sivasothy in Associated Content on Yahoo (June 4, 2007) However, On October 4, 2011, Sirohmi Gunesekera writes in ‘The Daily Mirror‘ of Sri Lanka: “Menarche marks a major change… If only the ceremonies marking the event were [...]

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Do You Want To Stop The Rain?

How do you like being called a “baby bearer”??? ‘The Times Of India’ refers to you as just that, in an article by Saadia S. Dhailey published on May 18, 2011, saying: “Too much is involved as baby-bearers are reminded of their natural role every month…” Not only are you a baby-bearer, but this is also your [...]

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Mirror, Mirror, On The Wall…

Imagine a moment of looking at yourself in the mirror. What is the first image that comes to mind? Are you smiling? Are you satisfied with what you see? Do you approve of the way you look? Or are you immediately under attack from your ‘Inner Critic’? Does your gaze zoom-in on the features you [...]

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