Most of us have been struggling with body image since our teens…
You may have come a long way…
But there are always those moments:
in front of the mirror at home, or at a clothing store, when your Inner Judge starts bombarding you with criticism, berating your looks… Sneering, mocking, gloating, until all you want to do is run away and hide.
Focusing on how you “should” look
Is Not Only Oppressive
It Robs You
Of Expressing your Soul Essence
Women are raised to fit impossible yard sticks
And we fall short, over and over again
We feel bad about ourselves
Over-eat in an attempt to find comfort
Become catty with others (mostly women)
We are stuck in a loop with no way out…
Living at the mercy of a Relentless Inner Judge…
You have put the Judge in there, and you can take it down!
You can shift your focus
From how you Look
To how you Feel
The way out begins with letting go of external eyes, with dropping external yard sticks, and growing instead your very own inner points-of-reference, supported by others who are walking the same path
When you are your own point-of-reference –
And mutual support begins.
This is when we move from Competition to Collaboration, from resenting other women for getting what’s “rightfully ours” to realizing not only there is always Enough, but we can help each other get exactly what we want and need
Women, on average, will spend around $125.000 on clothes in her entire lifetime. The apparel industry today is a $12 billion dollar business
The average woman spends $225,360 over the course of a lifetime on her appearance
On average, women aged 16 and over spend 76% more than men of the same age. Women aged 45-54 also spend the most on clothing and appearance
The average woman owns a 40 makeup products. If this statistic gives you pause, think of all those lipsticks, mascaras, eyeliners, nail polishes, blushes, and powders sitting in your makeup case
80% of U.S. women wear cosmetics every day. This translates to 161 million individuals, spending $15,000 in a lifetime on cosmetics, each.
The average woman spends $200,000-$300,000 in a lifetime on skincare and beauty products
U.S. Women own, on average, 19 pairs of shoes although they only wear 4 pairs regularly. Glamour magazine reports the Average Woman Spends Almost $25,000 on shoes In Her Lifetime!
It’s time for our Inner Judge to retire
And look at ourselves through the eyes of the heart…
I always wanted to be thinner, taller, blonder than I was as a girl.
Dreaming of having long, straight, flowing hair down to my waist, I hated my curly hair which my mom insisted I keep short.
I dreamed of having a pug nose and used to spend hours pushing it up with my finger while reading books, in the hopes that it will stay up!
And I’ve been guiding women all over the world, for over 30 years, to do the same.
Change is not only possible, it is our birth right, and it is time!
Change doesn’t only come from within, it comes in Community.
As women, we can transform the shared oppressed values we have been raised with, into shared support. Instead of swimming alone against the tides, let’s move together as waves in the ocean.
Most women were raised to think we’re supposed to look anything but the way we do…
Let’s stop this vicious cycle!
A flag ship Online course
That teaches you how to move from self loathing to self acceptance,
to love your body unconditionally, and to accept yourself fully, exactly as you are.
For women who are tired of the struggle to be anyone other then themselves
and are ready to come home
Self Loving Queen Academy
Or 4 payments of $130 each
Doors are open for a limited time
Course begins September 19
Discover your innate state of mind before judgment was born
Return to the innocence of a girl’s Self Love
Trace the origins of negative messages
Discover where these messages are lodged in your body and mind
Clear your system of all that doesn’t belong there
Reveal the sacredness of your body
Learn to love and accept yourself unconditionally
Re-frame your self worth
Move from looks to feelings
Discover your Divinity
A weekly audio Shamanic Journey (yours to keep)
Weekly Live Zoom Group call (recording is yours to keep)
Shamanic Journeys arrive on Mondays for 7 weeks
You listen in your own time
Wednesdays, Noon Pacific:
September 21, 28 ~ October 5, 12, 19, 26 ~ November 2
Convert to your Time Zone – HERE
Attend Live AND get the Recording
It’s time to Love Yourself like the Queen you Are!
CLICK HERE for Payment Plan (4 payments of $130 each)
Doors open for a limited time!
For those ready to Soar (with personal guidance)
Sometimes you don’t see the forest for the trees…. Life issues often cloud our vision and we need a helping hand to get out of the woods.
Or 4 payments of $177 each
CLICK HERE for payment plan (4 payments of $177)
Doors open for a limited time
Academy begins September 19
It’s no secret that our daughters do as we do (not as we say…)
When we look in the mirror and cringe, our girls are watching, and they follow what they see.
53% of dieters are already at a healthy weight and are still trying to lose weight
Carolina Public Health Magazine survey finds disordered eating behaviors among three out of four American women
We can’t afford to dis-empower our daughters, granddaughters, nieces, and young friends. We have all the reasons in the world to change: for our own sake, for our girls’ sake, and for the generations to come.
Each of the six weeks includes about a half-hour of Audio Shamanic Journey and an hour-long group Zoom call.
Beyond that – you can devote as much or as little time as you desire. As with most things of value in life, you’ll get out what you put in.
Of course! You’ll receive each week’s Audio Shamanic Journey on a Monday, and we’ll meet for the Live Zoom session on Wednesdays at Noon Pacific.
You can attend live calls, or Download the recordings (yours to keep)
September 21, 28, ~ October 5, 12, 19, 26 ~ November 2
Convert to your Time Zone HERE
Attend Live AND get the Recording
Forever! You have indefinite access to the Audio Shamanic Journey, and once you Download the Live Zoom Calls – they are yours to keep
Absolutely! We are all on a path, and I’m yet to meet a person who is “done” loving themselves. Loving and accepting ourselves is a layered path. Like peeling an onion, we work on one layer at a time.
No matter where you are on the journey, you will get an opportunity to deepen your healing
Loving Yourself is an Inside Job
If not Now, When?
And if not You, then Who?
Buffy, Montserrat, Sophia, Cat, Monet, Dana, Hildegard, and Ilke, are only a few out of thousands of women around the world who have fired their Inner Judge, and begun growing Self Love and Self Acceptance like a lush garden in their lives.
It’s time to weed-out those critical voices in your head,
and fall in love with You.
Or 4 payments of $130 each
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